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*utierrez1610
writes:So, theres this guy i like. We met two years ago, and three weeks ago we started talking again. He said he was interested in me. He was having problems with this girl he was with for 10 months. They broke up and he wanted me to be his girlfriend, but he got back with her because I didn't show enough interest. But he likes me alot. We stopped talking. Now two days ago, he says he wants me to go to his house and hang out. I said i couldn't, then he keeps begging me to. We started flirting over text message and he sent me a picture of his private part saying he knows for a fact i can't handle it. i said isn't that for your girlfriend? he said yeah but she can't handle it. Now, he wants me to go over so we can "chill". Should i go over and Hang out with him, possibly have sex with him?
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Unless you actually want to be the 'girl with whom he cheated on his girlfriend', why would you even consider it?
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reader, americanpatriot +, writes (24 November 2010):
 There's got to be a reason why you weren't interested in him enough to have sex with him when he was single. Remember that reason. Don't give this guy the satisfaction of thinking it was seeing his p---- that changed your mind! I think doing that would really make you look slutty. He shouldn't have sent you a vulgar photo without you asking for one. That was pretty rude of him to do that.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (24 November 2010):
 if you go over to hang out with him, and have sex, just know that this is all he's looking for. Don't think for a second that he will dump his girlfriend for you. He is just a cheater looking for some fun on the side. For him to send a pic of his privates to you show what kind of guy he is. So beware and know what you are getting into.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 November 2010):
 He sent you a pic of his penis? How tacky. No, he's taken. Don't put yourself in the "other girl" position. Because that's all you'll ever be. Move on to a man who wants to date you and not use you for sex.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Of course you shouldn't, he's looking to use you for some fun on the side and you're willing to let him. At your age you should know better than to cross the line with a taken man in the first place, and by sleeping with him you'd only be setting yourself up for disappointment. He clearly doesn't respect you or his girlfriend, and seems to be using you both for his convenience. He's not worth it, move on and find someone that's single.
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