He had sex with his ex. Do I forgive and forget?

A female age 30-35, *alia9741 writes:

Ok My ex-boyfriend tryed to breakup with me, he said maybe we should be friends. But then I was saying sorry, so he said forget about everything. So he came over and I started crying, then he said he wouldn't leave me ect. Then we had sex, so then when i called him he started acting all funny, he came over and told me he was having guilty conscious, he told me that he started texting his ex. I was pissed, so when i called he was at home or answering his phone. When i finally talked to him he told me i need sometime to think, he kept trying to breakup with me. So one day when he talked to me, he didn't sound happy, he said I really need to see you. He drove me to work he said he messed up, he said he got drunk with his ex, and had sex at a park with her. I was so hurt, I couldn't stop crying. Then that same day I started cussing him out, Left work and he came to see me I was still crying. When I seen him i was talking to my friend, and she started talking to him. He then wanted to fix what happen etc. This ex was trying to play her role, she knew what she was doing and he fell for it. I took a smoke talked to him he said he wasn't feeling it with me no more. I was still hurt, so we met up, and I told him how I felt, about the whole thing, he realized finally that she was playing her role, and he showed me the text she sent him, about not being rude or anything or trying to sound like a hoe but i just wanna fuck with no strings attached. So i was pissed, but basically he said he need to work on himself, we taking a break, and he needs to explain this to his brother, because hes confused about who he with. So long story short do i forgive and forget, and if its meant to be just let him come back to me?

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