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writes:Ok so I met this guy at school about a month ago, December 2010. and he was really nice, he would open the door for me, and offer me a ride back home and he would text me all the time and call me. He was even willing to visit me in Vegas when I went for winter break. The thing is, I just found out that he had a girlfriend the whole time. I just found out the other day when his mom called me and told me "My son has a girlfriend and I really like her. I don't want there to be any problems anymore because I know there was some before" when I heard that, I didn't know what to say. I was mad and hurt and felt betrayed. He didn't really show any signs and I'm the type of girl that likes to take things really slow so we never planned any dates even though he offered. I'm just so confused. What do I do? I've never been in this situation before.
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reader, bev93  +, writes (28 January 2011):
 I've been in ur condition b4, mine was worse, I spent 2years wif him and he had a girl friend the whole time, 2 years as well, I cried my life out, still listend to his lies that he'd leave her and at the end he left me instead, my dear, MOVE ON, there are so many sperms in the bag, so many fishes in the river, so many calories in candy, u knw wat I mean, MOVE ON.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (28 January 2011):
His mother has issues. You may have dodged a bullet. Really, she makes no sense! Her reaction was crazy!
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reader, beautifuldisaster7 +, writes (28 January 2011):
beautifuldisaster7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you PatientlyWaiting1. That was some really good advice. I just can't believe that he hasn't tried to contact me since. & the way his mother made me sound like I was a homewrecker. I mean come on.. he's 19 he's still young.. why would she want his son to be tied down like that. geez this woman was already practically planning they're wedding. ugh I don't know.. I'm guessing the reason why he hasn't contacted me is maybe because, either his mom or girlfriend deleted my number off his phone.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (27 January 2011):
This is what you do. Walk away. Tell him you really like him but you will not put yourself in that type of situation. Let him know to call you when he figures out what he wants. That is it.
I have been there and that is what I should have done. I found out the hard way. Never ever be in a situation like that. He will have more respect for you for leaving.
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