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writes: i have a real problem. this one guy flirts with me and he acts like he likes me. he looks at me and when i look at him he looks away. i really like him and dont know if he likes me back. is he playing the flirting game or should i ask him out? and another thing do guys like it when girls ask them out or not? and do they like gurls to come up and talk to them randomly? please help me!!!!
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (11 May 2006):
Well, to start at the top, he may well be playing the flirting game but that doesnt mean he would say no. All the things you mention suggest that there is at least some interest there. How you build on that you need to play by ear I think.
I think guys are still generally expected to make the running but to be honest its not something that bothers me. I guess it may put off some guys but my attitude about who asks who is ce le vie. As for the talk randomly think that should be cool as long as you are not too in there face about it, just act casual calm and collected even if your stomach is doing loops inside. Hope that helps.
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