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writes: Ive been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and she was totally shaved for the first 4. Last year she asked me if I would be alright with her to stop shaving her vagina. At first I was hesitant but I agreed because it is a fetish of hers to be natural. She is greek and is extremely hairy down there especially since she hasnt touched her vagina with a razor in almost a year not even her bikini line. Sex feels a lot better for some reason with her being unshaved. My question is have you ever heard of sex feeling better with an unshaved girl vs. a shaved girl. Looking forward to your answers. Thank you
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reader, maspelo +, writes (8 February 2011):
Why is it considered a "fetish" not to shave and be natural??? I think pussies look way more attractive with hair. I can say without a doubt, and with scientific fact, that sex feels better with hair. Why? Because hair follicles have sensitive nerve endings that enhance sex. I think the current trend of "jackhammer" style sex is a result of the shaved thing because sensitivity is so much more reduced that a guy has to pound hard to get sensation. This shaving trend is a real sick thing to do as a human.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): I can fully understand why sex would feel better when both parties have the pubic hair intact. It reduces pulling of the skin and friction.
My partner has just had to have a full Brazilian wax as part of a waxing course she is doing.
I have not seen her since, (only done today), but I am hesitant about the look and feeling now. To me no hair seems infantile.
I for one am hoping she does not continue it, and that she goes back to being a woman again.
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reader, TRICK333 +, writes (13 July 2007):
TRICK333 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell cd your right my girlfriend even admits that she is well aware that most guys dont like when a girl doesnt shave down there but she is really into her fetish and whatever gets her excited I will be 100% for it! If it turns her on to be hairy then it turns me on too. Your response is much appreciated!
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reader, TRICK333 +, writes (10 June 2007):
TRICK333 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMyself and my girlfriend have been having great sex since she has stopped shaving her lower region. The only thing we have both been somewhat arguing about is her at least shaving her bikini area for the summer! We went to the shore last weekend and while she insists she loves being hairy "down there" I really dont like people knowing she has a hairy bush. She wore a very revealing white bikini at the beach last weekend with a skirt rapped around her lower area. When we went in the water of course she took the skirt off but her bush was coming out of the sides and actually the top of her bikini bottom. Basically because it was white you could see her black pubes through the bottom anyway but severely coming out of the sides for everyone to notice had guys staring at her. We argued a little about her at least shaving her bikini area but it seemed I wasnt winning this argument! I dont want to have her revealing her bush so much in public. Any thoughts from people out there would be very helpful to both of us. Thank you
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reader, TRICK333 +, writes (6 May 2007):
TRICK333 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your responses! If my girlfriends fetish is to be hairy "down there" then I definitely dont have a problem with it. Sex feels a lot better now too then when she was clean shaven. The only negative I have about it is what it looks like coming out of her panties and bathing suit but if it makes her happy then I am all for it!
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reader, Dr. Mark +, writes (16 April 2007):
This is totally cultural, and attitudes change from time to time. Go to your library and look at an early copy of the Joy of Sex. The sketches in there show women and men with lots of body hair, including arm pit hair. Times may change again and go back to that. Just think, for hundreds of thousands of years, men and women have had sex without shaving.
Having said this, I do personally prefer the short hair or even clean shaven look. My preference though isn't so much about intercourse as it is cunilingus (me going down on her). For that, I prefer not to get hair caught in the back of my throat, and I like to see everything. But that's just me. It's all personal preference.
Let her keep growing it back in, and I'm sure you'll still like sex! It's really easy for most guys to get off regardless, and you really want her to feel confident. If having hair makes her feel confident, then sex will be better all round for both of you. She might try it and change her mind later. Always tell her she is beautiful, no matter what.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (15 April 2007):
Well obviously I'm not a guy but I've heard guys sneer quite a lot at girls who don't 'garden' down there because they say it's disgusting. You're not being one of these guys but try to bear in mind having to shave all of your body before you have sex every time. It gets old and painful.
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