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writes: hi i'm 16 and really like a guy. he is about 28 and is very nice sort of good boy. i really like him and wish to date him but on the other hand i'm afraid that i misunderstood him. i think that he likes me and he thinks i'm 23. what should i do because if i tell him somethin i'm afraid that it goes bad. if i tell him something about my feelings and he doesnt feel the same thing i cant avoid him as we train the same sport and meet frequently altough we re not exactly friends we have some kind of connection. so? what i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 December 2006):
 This sounds all one-sided to me. I think you simply have a crush on the guy and he isn't the slightest bit interested in you other than merely friendship. As the one aunt said, enjoy your crush, they can be very entertaining, it will of course fade eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry i didnt explain myself well what i ment when i said that "but he somehow keeps in his mind that i'm 16" what i ment was that he sort of has to remind himself that i'm only 16 not 23. and from my point of view he isnt very old as i am normally attracted to men in their late thirties to early fifthies. even though i've always type of "loved" them secretly. so for me it's a bit of relief that he's still in his 20's. and boys my age are just immature boys none of them behave like men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): You are asking us what do you do. I'll tell you: you back off from this man (he isn't a boy; but as someone else pointed out, you are a young girl). He is much too old for you.
Whether he thinks you are 23 or knows you are only 16 - and what you are telling us makes no sense - if he were interested in having you as a possible girlfriend, I would be very concerned about his motives - AND YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED, TOO!! Do your parents know about this? If so, they would hardly be likely to want you to pursue this friendship - and might well be angry with him if he attempts to.
I repeat: you have no business trying to interest him. HE should know better, even if you don't!
Boys your own age are who you should be making friends with; not someone that much older who is out making his own living in the world, and properly, dating women in their twenties. If he tried to make you his gf he would simply be taking advantage of you. That's what it amounts to, so for your own sake, leave it alone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry i forgot to say that he knows that i'm 16 but he somehow keeps in his mind that i'm 16
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