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He either stares at me, or winks, or he blanks me. What's he thinking?

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Question - (21 March 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

Does Malcolm have real feelings for me, or is he playing mind games?

Sorry it's long, but I have to describe the situation!

How do you hink he really feels? This guy that I've liked for three years is confusing me!! Here's some of the things that have happened!

His gf and I nearly bumped into them going round the corner and when I saw him, he smiled at me in a really nice way. They were at the door and he was talking to a mate. I was looking down at him now and again and I noticed he was talking away to him and he would then stand facing my direction and look up at me. I thought that he must still like me cos he was pratically staring at me when his gf was beside him.

I think he's playing mind games with me cos he flirted when I was in school (left year and half ago), then says hi to me when he sees me, and started ignoring me for a month and blanks me. Then instead of blanking me, he smiled and looked (what I just explained!)

Last time he was in coop (on his own) he ignored me again but I caught him looking and staring at me when I turned round... I'm 18 and he's 30 and he used to be my teacher for a year.

Him and gf have been on and off for about 2 years now, only got back together month ago.

Do you guys think he still likes me or what? I hope he does!! When I was in school and after I left, he smiled at me a lot. Talks all the time and we have a laugh, stare at each other. His pupils are bigger seen his bulge. hehe Caught him staring at me quite a lot, always asked me how I am, always touching each other's hands (feeling was amazing!) He would sit beside me or stand near me a lot, always looking over. Stuck his tongue out a few times, winks at me...

But now he blanks me. It's weird. Or he smiles.. HELP!!

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A reader, Wildberries +, writes (24 May 2005):

Having once been your teacher may be a bit of a mental block for him, but he seems to be trying to get over it. Maybe he thinks you would not be interested in a man that much older than you?

If you want to take the chance let him know in no uncertain terms that you are interested in him in an intimate way. He might say "sorry I cant help you " or he might be ready to take a run at it too. Go get him, if you want him...Good Luck!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2005):

Of course he likes you!!He's probably a shy guy who wonders if he may not be good enough for you,or he doesn't want to offend you by making a move because of the age difference.But the reality is that shy guys are the nicest,so i would suggest taking the initiative.At the very least he's going to be flattered.Be brave!Good luck.x.

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A reader, Michael, writes (22 March 2005):

He is way too OLD for you. I would think that he is only attempting to get a piece of a**.

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