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writes:I have a boyfriend,and for the past week he has been trying to get rid of me b/c he was "in love" with another girl,i begged and pleaded for him not to leave me,but he insisted.When i decided to leave he asked me to come and talk to him. Now he is telling me he loves me and can't live without me. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, rockelle +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Obviously this guy isn't sure what love is. If you stay with him I think you are setting yourself up for heartache in the future.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Tell him you don't want a boy who's fickle. At this age, that's just fickle. He should know his own mind by now and yet, he doesn't, and that's just not terribly mature. By not "making up his mind", he has shown you that it's ALL about him and his precious feelings. He doesn't really give a rat's patooty how YOU feel. It sounds like he enjoys playing two girls against each other in order to prop up his own ego. But he can't do that if he only has one girl, can he!! Be the girl who shot him down and told him where to get off. Honestly, do you need this kind of drama? Find someone who isn't confused about how he feels. You deserve to be treated properly. If you stick around, you can't be too surprised if he does this ALL over again.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Drop this guy as easy as it was from him to drop you. Hate to say it but it seems like your just plan B...a second choice. Give yourself more dignity and leave this guy out the picture. Besides, isnt that what he asked for? He doesnt really care for you as much as you care for him otherwise he wouldve never left you considering the fact that he was "IN LOVE" with another girl. Wont that always stay in your mind? Let him suffer the consequences. Dont let him play with your heart. Who knows. maybe he is asking you back because the other girl didnt want him. Have you thought of that? My advice is to drop this guy as much as you may love him because honey, he wouldve never left if he felt the same. Make the right choice!
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