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writes:me and myboyfriend were together for 1year and i love him so much. i used to be playa but i stopped doing that! i wanna spent rest of my life with him but he's not that crazy about me. he said he love me but when ever i talk about future he get mad and piss off..he alwaz sayz why you alwaz think about future! and plus he don't hang out with me this dayz..we used to hang out every weekend.. but now we don't! when ever he's off he alwaz hangout with his friends. and when ever i ask him to go out with me..he alwaz sayz we hang out 2weeks ago we don't have to hang out all the time! he alwaz sayz we work together....we see each other every day ..so we don't have to hang out! but iwanna spent time with him alone! but he don't want that...one day i talked about future..he said don't think about future i'm not thinking about marry and start life with you..so i was so sad but there is nothing i can do about it...he said it infront of me not once alot of time..but i'm so crazy about him...i can't live without him.. i love him so much but HE DON'T LOVE ME LIKE I LOVE HIM....WHY IS THAT? I MEAN THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME... i'm attractive girl ..alota guys thinks i'm hot or should i say average...but i don't think he sees that way... what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): okay forget it about future.... he don't even wanna hang out with me..
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (6 October 2007):
Are you a trained dog or what? You should not be wasting your time on a guy who treats you like a love sick puppy dog. Get out there a find a guy who will treat you right.
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reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (6 October 2007):
 STOP!!!! It sounds like you're rushing things, some people are scared of the future, of tying themselves down, if you are forever asking him about the future, you are probably scaring him more, okay, how about you take about a month and don't think about the future, think about right now, if you love him, spend you time with him wisely :) An when you think he is ready, then talk to hi if he actually does want to get married, not everybody does, I'm sorry if this upsets you but it's true. And give him some space, he'll appreciate it, and spend some more time with YOUR friends :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx
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