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female
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36-40,
*indsayLove
writes:I really need help.I first meet my (off right now) boyfriend at work a year ago. We became friends fast and would talk on the phone for hours. He soon told me that he liked me and wanted to date me. I didn't like him at all, but since he was my first really boyfriend I liked fooling around with him.Well we started to date (he broke up with his girlfriend to be with me) and we moved in together within a week and within a month was engaged. well, within another month he broke things off with me and left me for another girl. he claimed it was because he caught me talking abiut him behind his back and didn't like that.Well him and the girl didn't work out. (they lasted for a little over two weeks, and she was using him.) He was hurt and turned to me and we became firends again. Well since i stood by him while he lost everything, (his house, car, job) he said he realized i was the girl for him and wanted to get back together, but at the time i didn't trust him so I said no, well he said he understood and we remainded best friends. Well, after time we decided to get back together and he said he loved me and always have. Well, three months ago he moved across the globe and we decided to make it work. He said he loved me and he wanted to get back together, but last week(after several arguments and him telling me he was falling back in love with me) that he moved on and didn't want todate me. The next day he called me and told me he was coming home and that he wanted to see me and we acted like we normally do, him calling me every night, and we would talk. He said he wanted to have sex with me when he saw me, becasue we were forced to have phone sex for so long. Then I heard he had wanted to date another girl.Please help. I don't know if he wants to be with me or not.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (6 October 2007):
Stay away from him. He has no real love for you, he is just using you. Respect yourself and find a better bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): The first analogy that comes to mind is that he's like a bee flitting from flower to flower and can't make his mind up as to which one he's going to settle on.
There's no commitment here at all. Yes - he does want to be with you. He wants to be with you because he wants sex, and not for any other reason. If you want to be at his beck and call every time he feels horny that's up to you. But it seems like he's doing the same thing to a load of other girls as well. He's treating you all like sluts and having a whale of a time doing so.
You can do better for yourself.
Phil
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