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writes:Hello, I am a 22 year old female who met a 24 year old male. I am volunteering at an organization that the guy I met works at. We've known each other for two months now but I see him every once in a while because I don't always have shifts. He works during office hours and I often see him hanging around in the building. He helps out volunteers as well. He checks up on me and chats with me. I found out we're both undergrads just trying to finish school. We recently had a work party. While everyone was having lunch, chatting, having a great time, he would glance at me often and pretty much be where I am. He complimented on what I was wearing and asked if I was having good time. An older employee assumed we were dating too. He doesn't talk to other volunteers but me. Does this guy like me?Also, I would like to kindly ask what kind of signals a guy gives off when he likes someone. I am new to this. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2018): After two months of all you've described; why hasn't he asked you for a date?
This question gets frequently asked. Nobody knows what's in his head, or what is intentions are; but he himself. How shy could a guy still be after two whole months have rolled-by?
Sometimes people take a liking to you, and feel at-ease being around you. They might have no romantic-interest at all; but just like your personality, and want to be nice to you. You have things in-common, but it doesn't always mean someone is seeking companionship outside the premises. So you'll have to take the initiative to find-out!
A guy dancing-around you for two months without asking you out is either gay, or taken. Shyness may be the case; but too much of it gets annoying!
If you want to settle this once and for all; why don't you ask him out for coffee or a drink? Maybe go see a movie!
It's time somebody stops this silly dance, and breaks the ice! It's not your job, it's volunteer. Best place ever to meet a nice-guy!
Nobody can tell you if he likes you, or how. That's up to you to find-out! What if we say he does, but it turns out he's not interested romantically? What if he is, but keeps messing-around with you? Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
Somebody's got to make a move! Take a deep breath; and go for it, sweetheart!
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (10 December 2018):
 Nobody can guess whether he likes you, but, judging on what you have described, he certainly doesn't DISLIKE you, otherwise he would avoid you.
Perhaps he is "new to this" as well? If you like him, stay friendly. Ask him questions about himself. Listen when he answers. He may be trying to read YOUR signals as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2018): Only time will tell. Just be friendly and be yourself. If he feels any attraction towards you, he will eventually give you more concrete hints and then he will pursue you. Let things progress naturally. I'd also be careful since you are in a professional environment together. Being a volunteer does count as work experience and it will reflect well or poorly on you depending on your conduct.
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