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51-59,
*ercedes34
writes:My fiancee and I have been together for a while..I know that sex isn't everything..However, it is good if done right...I have a situation like this we engage in intercourse half the time there is no foreplay and he doesn't last for more than 45 seconds..Should I take care of myself in front of him to let him know that I wasn't satisfied, or do it in private?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): My bf is the same way dear.......45 seconds to a minute. He always satifys me with his fingers and tongue. Or.....I will masturbate for him.....a HUGE turn on for him.
No complaints from my "minute man". Quite flattering actually.
Kim (Age 36)
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reader, love-him  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 babe i have the exact same problem, with my boyfriend. he lasts 45min on average. what you need is to ask him to engage on foreplay to you, massage your genitals, everything which turns you on.. you need to be near to orgasm when you end up having sex because it will definatly feel better and will make a hugh difference if its done correctly, babe i hope u understand me, mail me if u wana chat x x x
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reader, DV1 +, writes (24 May 2007):
 Although I have never engaged in intercourse, I've watched A LOT of documentaries on how to please a woman... He's probably getting so worked up ahead of time, that he cums almost immediately. You need to be sensual with him, and get him into a calm state. Then, when he's about to peak, make him say STOP. Before he does, give him a second, then start again. It will help him go for longer, and you'll at least be a little bit farther along. He should also be satisfying you first, as well.
Dv1
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 May 2007):
 No, you should talk to him and tell him you want more foreplay. Let him please YOU first before he enters you, that way both of you will be satisfied.
Eve
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 Firstly tell him you want him to watch you masterbate. This is a great way to teach him what you like. Next, go to a sex shop together, and see what kind of sex board games, or toys you both would feel like trying together. Chocolate boyd painting and such makes for interesting foreplay. He might not understand that keeping the sex interesting is his job as a man, so offering him some creative ideas like the above might encourage him to get his creative juices flowing.
-FBK
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