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36-40,
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writes:ive been seeing guy for 2mouths and all he wanted from me was sex,he use to call and text me everyday but not any more. i gave him sex a few times because i really like him but he doesnt like me at all. he told one of my friends that he only wanted sex nothing more and that i dont get the message, buts sometimes he calls me out of the blue to meet up. when gets what he wants he leaves straight away he knows how i feel about but he doest care, 2days ago i was standing at the bus and saw him chatting up a girl and exchanging numbers. he saw me then walk off i walk up to him and said who was that and he said oh i no her, thats my friends cousin and i was just asking her if she has his number prison. but anyway i thinks he is lying, seeing him taking her number really tore my heart out.. but why would he appoach her in front of me knowing how i feel about him??? do you think he was tellin me the truth?? please help
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Because he does not care. He told you. He told your friends. Whether you are hurt,or sad, or happy is not his problem.
You can't reasonably stay in this situation- and complain about it, because you know how it's gonna be. It's just casual sex. No feelings on his side. He made no mistery about that. It's only up to you to leave the situation- fast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Dump him. You're not a sex toy. Stand up for yourself. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Don't give sex to someone because you like him. You have to want it for yourself, too. If someone is interested in you, not in the sex with you, then he'll wait. i did.
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