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writes:i think my bf is controlling me because whenever we make out or something he always gets his way. i dont want to break up with him but i dont know how i can say no. i dont mind him touching me over my clothes but sometimes he goes underneath.he doesnt stop asking till i let him do what he wants and as hes way stronger i cant stop him all the time. i know i cant sit down and speak 2 him about it cause i know that wont work.what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Sister Sue...You need to tell this guy to take a big Ol Hike....and if he doesn't, then you need to find a big OL Police officer, who can put it into a language that he can understand. No man should ever treat a lady, like this punk is treating you. You deserve so much, much better sweetie. Best of Luck!!
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reader, chloe71z  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 Next tiem you tell him NO and he does it anyway KNOCK THE FIRE out of him to get his attention and when he asks you what was that for just Tell him NO MEANS NO. Thats it and remove yourself from the sittuation if your on the couch then you move to the chair he needs to learn to respect your boundries. if he dont then toss him to the curb and find some one who can.
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reader, Regina Souza  +, writes (16 August 2008):
Simple, tell him to take a HICK!!! RESPECT is the MAIN word to make a relationship work through a LIFETIME if this is what YOU WANT!! It needs TWO PERSON to dance the TANGO, therefore, NO IS NO!!! Stop seeing him for a while, of course, give him an ultimatum, then, you will decide if this GUY is the ONLY ONE on EARTH!!GOOD LUCK!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): It won't be very long before you're the victim of a sexual assault, and you'll end up as yet another statistic on the crime sheets.
You really do need to distance yourself from this boy before he does something nasty, and I don't think it will be very long before that happens - especially if you let him do as he pleases.
He should know that when you say 'No!' you mean exactly that. If he can't accept that, then it's time to dump him - and fast. There are plenty more boys out there who will respect a girl and not go groping when it's not wanted. This boy isn't one of them. In fact, dump him anyway. You'll do yourself a big favour by doing so.
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