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reader, HisBabyGurl  +, writes (19 August 2007):
This basically means u arent ready for this kind of thing because if you let them have it once they will want it all the time...sex is meant to be special and something that is in an act of love and i dont feel at your age you really know what love is!..i wasted my virginity because i wanted to get it out of the way with but i really regret that now! your first time is a time you will always remember so make it someone who will give you that feeling!i wish i had of waited to be honest and its not all cracked up to be what it is!
Take Care..hope this helps
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (18 August 2007):
As for the legality thing, It doesn't ever seem to be enforced here in the U.S. unless it is statutory rape. I found this link: http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
However, that doesn't mean you're ready for it. With your bodily response, you probably should wait until you are comfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): You both are quite young to be playing with sexual-fire and you both might just get burned. Yet that no doubt won't stop either of you from knowing each other sexually, Law or no Law. I'll not give either of you any advice due to your ages. However you can find on the Web,What the schools should be teaching, but won't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): ya but we did take it slow thats the problem i guess though it was cause i wasnt relaxed well whatever thanks
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reader, daglish  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 First, Daglish is back after a long period on the sidelines. Second, both of you guyz just arent ready to have sex. Infact you are lucky he couldnt just get it in.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Like that other person said. Although in your mind you may seem ready for something IT MIGHT BE LYING!!! So basically that just means that you need to relax more and that's just your body showing you you're not exactly ready yet. Take it slowww
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): It means you're not ready yet. Wait..
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reader, puzzled  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 well for starters it is illegal to have sex. legel age is 16 and i think its older in usa!.. this is caused usually from not been relaxed or your body jusy tellin you its not ready at this moment
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