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writes:i recently split with my boyfriend because he invited another girl round to his and she stayed the night. we had been together for a year and i was deeply in love with him, now were not together, im finding it hard to get over him. then yesterday he started talking to me saying we can sort this, he knows what he did was wrong and can he have a second chance? i said im not sure, i dont really want a relationship, as im going into year 11 and i really need to concentrate this year on my GCSE. he said he understands but he's not the type of person to wait, when we was together thought he said he will wait forever for us to live together, as long as he is with me. im confused and dont know what to do. should i give him another chance, after i've left school? or should i try and forget about him? please help :-(
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 The guy is a loser and now he is making demands? LOL Sorry, I find that funny.
Concentrate on your school, grades, friend and family and let this guy do his "thing" elsewhere.
I think he could easily be the kind of guy who once forgiven will cheat again and again and again...... Because if the girl can forgive him, cheating can't be that bad.. DUMBASS mentality.
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reader, MisguidingBoys +, writes (27 July 2010):
Forget him he isnt worth your time.
He seem the type that if you forgive him, he'll cheat again knowing that you'll forgive him again because you love him.
if he really wanted to work it out he'll wait until your in a place to completely trust him again.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (27 July 2010):
 He's not worth it! A girl spends the night at his? He won't wait for you? Charming...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 July 2010):
This guy cheated. Period. And now he says he won't wait for you? Sorry, but he's a louse. No, you can't sort it. Don't sort it with a guy who thinks he can cheat on you, then just wander back into your life and force you into a corner. You're better than that. He's cheated now, and he will certainly do it again given that he is a teenage boy who has so little respect for you or any other girl. You don't need this kind of unreliable, uncaring man in your life. You really can find a better man elsewhere, when you get a bit older.
Your new plan is the best plan you can have. Do your GSCE's, which are hugely important. And cut this loser from your life. He just wants to come back into your life, and will treat you like crap again. He has no respect for you at all. Get rid of him.
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