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female
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anonymous
writes:HiI need some advice. I have been in a serious relationship with my partner for several years, we are engaged and have a 2 year old daughter. For over 12 months now, i have gone off wanting sex and even getting close to him. little things he does disgust me, and i feel that when he does make an effort, its just for one thing which usually it is. I dont know why this is happening and how i can stop these feelings, i used to adore him! Im worried that its because i have never been with another man before, and hes starting to get worried. On top of all of this, he is a dope smoker which i didnt know of until a year after we became engaged. I feel hurt that he feels the need to smoke this regularly, even more now because he's out of work. I dont want to hurt he feelings at all, but somehow i have to tell him without him going off in another one of his moods.Please help, any advice is welcome.
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reader, nuca  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 you mustn't be surprised because this troubles have every person...i think you just need to have a rest without him!
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reader, starfairy +, writes (27 July 2010):
 Maybe you could try relationship counseling, a friend of mine went to a place called Relate, and you pay by donation rather than a fee (I believe)
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