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*fupoling1142
writes:My boyfriend cheated on me the day before we had been together for 7 months. [a couple weeks ago]He brought this girl home and kissed her then within 5 minutes was at my house kissing me again.He did not tell me. His 13 year old sister just told me because the girl is her friend. The girl he kissed had just turned 15 a couple weeks back. He's 17.I confronted him about it and he denied it saying it was an effing rumor.. i pretended i knew... and he finally admitted it.I love him, it hurts so much, i want to be with him but i dont know if i could ever kiss him or trust him againwhat should i do?! help meee
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (17 October 2007):
Tell him if does something like that again you'll have to dump him.
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 You should cut him loose. Men seldom can be faithful at 30 years old, much less at his age. He's too young and immature to devote himself to just one gal. There will be time for that later in your life. It's time to move on.
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reader, kfupoling1142 +, writes (17 October 2007):
kfupoling1142 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know
i love him though
it hurts too much
i just found out he hooked up with a girl on vacation this summer
he was gone for 2 weeks, i went for 4 days to hang out then after i left, he got drunk and hooked up
i dont know what to do
it hurts so unbelievably much
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reader, kfupoling1142 +, writes (17 October 2007):
kfupoling1142 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know
i love him though
it hurts too much
i just found out he hooked up with a girl on vacation this summer
he was gone for 2 weeks, i went for 4 days to hang out then after i left, he got drunk and hooked up
i dont know what to do
it hurts so unbelievably much
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reader, hotty  +, writes (17 October 2007):
For starters what is he doing kissing a 15 yr old girl??? you need to tell him to f**k off. if he can kiss another girl behind your back what else is he capable of. walk away now dont risk getting hurt anymore now than you already are.
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reader, kfupoling1142 +, writes (17 October 2007):
kfupoling1142 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni asked him
he said he doesnt know why he did it!
he says he loves me ughhh
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reader, deee999 +, writes (17 October 2007):
Hi
I think you you talk to him. Ask him why he did this. He had to know it would hurt you, and that eventually you would find out. Either he didn't care that it hurt you, in which case he is not a very nice person, or he thought you wouldn't find out, in which case he is not a very nice person.
I know that it hurts, but its really important, above everything else that you can trust someone in a relationship. Without trust, there is no relationship.
Good luck, I hope it works out for you
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reader, kfupoling1142 +, writes (17 October 2007):
kfupoling1142 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you, he knows im upset.. really upseti talked to the girl.. she said it was just a friendly kiss, which i know is b***sh*t cause he wouldve told me that i still cant believe he would do thathe swore so many times that hed never do that.. ever.. he wasnt like that.. etci dont want to move on, i love him and i want to be with him but i cant forget or forgive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Its get on or move on.
Either get on with it and accept that its happened, be thankful it was only a kiss and do your best to just let it go - making it clear that it is unacceptable whilst in a relationship with you and it must never happen again
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Move on if you dont think that you will beable to forgive and forget. Dont forget you are worth more and deserve to be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Well I think you should not pretend that you dont care.because then if you do that it will just make it hurt even more than it already does. But if you do see this girl dont blame the break up on her.I think you should confront her and she what she has to say about it... But then agian if he asks you to get back together.. Think about it are you willing to give him a second chance?
Tanie
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