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*ariaMar
writes:Hi, I really need advice, I m with a guy and I m happy, he says he loves me, and sometimes he says I'm the most wonderful thing that happened to him, but I know he still chatting, and looking for girls, and even said to one of them that I'm just a roommate a helper, that I want a relationship with him but there is no chemistry, but to me he says he loves me, I love him but I love me more and think about leave, suggestions??
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (30 July 2011):
 to paraphrase Emperor Palpatine - your compassion for him will be your undoing
If he was not in such a pitiable state would you still feel the same about him?
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reader, MariaMar +, writes (27 July 2011):
MariaMar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks I know is sad the saddest part is that I really love him and I m compassionate about him because he is not so healthy but I understand that I have to leave thank you for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): Don't waste your life with such a sad case and don't you be a sad case. Helper....help yourself give him a shock, send him a bill of all the help you have given and walk away.
spunky monkey
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 You deserve better. Helper? How insulting! He doesn't deserve you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): My suggestion is that you gather your dignity, follow your instincts and leave him to these other women. How can you be happy with a guy who is looking for other women and telling them you are his room mate and there is no chemistry with you?
I would leave and save yourself any future heartbreak because this guy doesn't have any real love or respect for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): Most definitely leave.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (26 July 2011):
yep time to say adios to this guy. He will hem and haw, forever leaving you on the string while you dangle and waste your time.
Cut ties and find greaner pastures.
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reader, sweetcaroline +, writes (26 July 2011):
This guy kinda sounds like a player. I would leave, because you deserve someone who loves you 100%. Good luck!
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