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*utiepies99
writes:Iv'e been seeing a younger guy for about 2 months. It started out as friends, then got pretty serious.. Texting everyday, all day, talking everyday, seeing each other every other day. We got along really good. The only thing is he has some issues with trust. A really bad breakup on his end, left him bitter, distrustful and not wanting a relationship. But we seemed to have one, I guess without him knowing it!!Well, I started to ask some questions like, what are we doing, do we have a relationship.. He didn't have an answer for me. I told him how much i care about him, not like I never told him before,, But he started to retreat, We had a long emotional talk.. Now Im without him and its killing me..I forgot to say, that he also just lost his father 4 months ago and his bad break up was 1 1/2 years ago.What am I to do?I miss him terribly.
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reader, cutiepies99 +, writes (7 January 2008):
cutiepies99 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You all for your advise.
I really think your right..
Im going to give him space and time..
We are still friends but he's hurt and angry with me for asking him questions concerning our relationship.
But know I need to be there for him..
And I will be, because I Love and care so much for him...
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reader, AJ jess ^..^  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 dont push him into anything it seems like this guy needs some time but if you really love him let him know your there for him, once hes sorted his things out he may come running back to you x
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (6 January 2008):
 yeah... you need to give him a little time. bad break up and the death of the father.. he's not excatly gonna want to go to Mardi Gras'give him space and time. and don't push him.
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (6 January 2008):
This boy is having a hard time getting through all of his emotional issues so the best thing is to give him some space. Let him figure out things on his own for a bit. Let him know that you are there for him if he needs you for everything and then just give him as much space as he needs. When he sorts himself he will come back to you for the relationship he will then be ready to be in.be patient and understanding with himbest of luck
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 Just hang in there . Call him and see what is his response.Keep yourself busy and take your mind off him. Go and do something that you like and enjoy.
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