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writes:Hi there, any help will be greatly appreciated, more especially from a female. you see the thing is, my girlfriend was a virgin until she slept with her ex bf for the 1st time, but the thing is, she didn't feel any pain, and didn't even bleed, then we started dating and we had sex, and during the intercourse I had to stop for a while coz she was in so much pain, and afterwards she started bleeding, and this was about a 2 months after she did it with her ex bf, and they just did it once and never again. So what I really want to know, if I Took Her virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): I'm a female, and I have the same encounter with your GF. I was a bit drunk when I had my first intercourse. My exBF didn't fully penetrate, but I felt the pain when he was penetrating deeper. I pushed him away and that stopped the penetration. I didn't bleed, but I felt the pain till the next day. When I had my second intercourse with my present BF, i bleeded and of course much pain was there. I maybe not virgin cos i was half-penetrated by exBF, but it's my present BF who broke the hymen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): Are you sure she was telling the truth about having sex with her ex boyfriend? I think it's a bit strange not to feel any pain the first time but have to stop because it's so painful the second time...
However, to reiterate what most of the others said, if her ex boyfriend penetrated her, then he took her virginity, regardless of how much it hurt with you.
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reader, AJ jess ^..^  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 this type of question may be personal to some people but the hymen on her first time may not have broken which means techniqly she was still a virgin but in the sense of being penetrated she wasnt. You broke the hymen which means that she is no longer a virgin so maybe perhaps you did take her virginity, who knows its up to what you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): No you didn't take her virginity because she had sex with someone else before she had sex with you. Pain/bleeding does not matter.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (5 January 2008):
 if she she was penetrated, then she isn't a virgin in the " straight" sence of it. her hymen may not have broke on the first time. this isn't uncommen.no you didn't take her virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): in my opinion, you were the first to fully penetrate her. so if that means you took her virginity, then yes.
her ex must have been small in that department or not gone very far in though it is very strange as i think the hymen is actually quite early on near the vaginal entrance. correct me ont hat if i am wrong...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): you diddnt take it if she has had sex before you. Wether she was in pain or not is irrelevent, her ex took her virginity
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): Quite simple, she probably has a rather elastic hymen, the first experience therefore did not result in the breaking of the hymen - as you may have heard there are even times when this situation persists for years, the hymen remaining only partially fissured and too rarely intact - so I am guessing in your case either it's... your dimension......or during the first experience the penetration was rather superficial, this is the explanation. Good luck in your relationship and if you made love quite recently, wait a couple of days for the area to be healed. All the best...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): no you did not take her virginity if she had intercourse with her ex partner - it doesn't matter if she didnt bleed or experience any pain, what matters is the intercourse
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