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writes:Ok, heres the thing:I had this boyfriend for about four months. He was like the best. But he was also a flirt. There was one girl (who was actually my ex best friend) that he always flirted with and hung out with more than me. One day, he broke up with me and started going out with the other girl. I'm over him, and we're actually best friends still. I dont talk to her, the girl. But last week I was talking to him and he told me he still loved me. Then, yesterday, he accidentally told his girlfriend he still loved me. Theyre still going out, but he told me he doesnt know if he and the girl are still good. So what should I do? Should I avoid him now and let him continue his relationship with the girl? Or should I step in and try to win him back? Because the truth is, I still like him too.. Help!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
If this guy really loved you, why did he split with you? I don't think he really knows what he wants and I think you'd be better off staying away from him. Find a guy who is willing to commit to you, not just run away then try to get back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): If i was you i would avoid him. He broke up with you and he ran off with another girls so its his fault if he has no one after so its best if you avoid him. thats what i would do honestly because it happened to me a girl ran off with another lad it will be hard but it needs to be done.
Your choice good luck :)
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reader, kliciouss +, writes (4 October 2009):
 no. if he 'loved' you, he would have respected you and not leave you... and not just leave you, leave you for your ex-best friend. that is seriously eff'd up beyond all terms.I would understand another girl, but it had to be someone you were really close to before. he says he loves you and said it might not work out between the other girl is because he wants BOTH of you wrapped around his finger. she is his girlfriend so she is directly wrapped verses you who are the silent wrap. are you going to let him make you live in the dark like this? if hes a natural flirt, hes always gonna be one. be careful.
Avoid him at all terms, see how long it takes him to try to talk to you. see how long he tries. avoiding him will also be a test to see if he does really care... BUT see how LONG he cares. i seriously would not even consider him. you think about it... he threw you away and now he wants you. what are you? recyable? NO. teach him a lesson.
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