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writes: If a guy gives you a hug, calls you darling, says " i'll not be two seconds " when he walks away from you, comes back to speak to you again, and then asks what you are doing later on and gives you his mobile number, is he attracted to you or could he just be being friendly ?. This guy did that with me and i can't figure out what he thinks of me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Well, yeah, but he is trying to get you to chase him and that isn't really a great sign of how interested he is. He could just be a smooth player who will meet up with you for a fling if you give him a call, or maybe he would be interested in getting to know you better, but you could find out by doing what I suggested and put the ball back in his court.
I don't know the guy and neither do you, so I just think he is looking for a date, for a girl who will prove she will put all the effort into him so he doesn't have to do the pursuing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): are you sure he wasn't just being friendly ? lol i can't figure out whether he is attracted to me or not.i know some people call their friends " darling " and give them a hug, but the fact that he walked away saying " i'll not be two seconds ", then came back over to me, and gave me his number, makes me wonder if there is more to it than that.
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reader, LessonsLearned  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Ditto, Rhythmandblues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Sounds like he is pretty smooth, he is giving you his number instead of asking for yours to see if you are hot enough after him to give him a call first.
Maybe you could just send him a text to his number with your phone number and tell him you enjoyed meeting him and here is your contact information if he would like to give you a call sometime.
Put that ball back in his court, then you will know where you stand. Don't call him ever. Let him pursue you. If he is truly interested he will call and ask you out on a date....nothing less or he is just playing around with your feelings and your time.
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