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writes:I wrote last week about my boyfriend having commitment issues and how he needed some space. Well, last night he broke up with me. He says he still loves me and cares a great deal for me. He told me that he doesn't think we're meant to be together and that I deserve to be with someone that can give me everything. Part of me feels like he's not meaning what he's saying because he said this same exact thing to me back last July when we first broke up. He still wants to remain friends but I can't understand why. He has a hard time talking about his feelings and still lives his life in the past and that's why he has commitment issues today. His father was an alcoholic and abused his mom and sister when he was a kid. Also, his mom died a year and a half ago now. I love him so much and can't ever picture my life without him in it now. Please let me know what he may be thinking and what should I do from here on now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): He's probably trying to break up with you without feeling guilty.
If he was still interested he wouldn't have broke up with you.
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reader, penta +, writes (23 April 2007):
 When someone tells you who they are, please believe them. This guy told you he's not the one for you. If he were, he'd be fighting for you rather than pushing you away. Please let him go. You'll be happier in the long run.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 April 2007):
 I'm sorry but I think he is just trying to let you down as easily as he can. I think you'd best start moving on with your life. If being a friend will be too tough on you then maybe you should hold off on that at least until you feel stronger. Each day will get better and brighter.
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