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writes: I am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. Things were great at first, but now it seems as though he hasn't got any time for me. I love him but i feel as though he isn't as interested in me as much as i am in him. I don't want to lose him i just want to know how to make things better? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): Just want to send you a hug.
I'm in just the same spot, except we've been going out for 15 months. I almost wish he'd just dumped me outright - none of this 'I love you but we both need space' malarky.
My plan is to fill my life and concentrate on cheering myself up. If I feel the need to tell him something (rant), I write it as a draft email, read it, and then leave it- it's worked so far. A few much needed confidence boosts then maybe I'll even tell him where to go when he's had his fill of space....or then again....
Take care of yourself, you sound lovely, caring, gorgeous and intelligent. Whatever happens, let us know here - there's lots of people who care. x
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reader, sweetchick +, writes (26 January 2006):
sweetchick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice gals, but alas, we broke up about half an hour ago. He said he loves me but he needs space which im willing to give, but i dont understand why he cant have space and still be with me?
i love him so much and i really dont know what to do. i'm really hurting at the moment and any advice on how to win him back would be greatly appreciated. i know it sounds bad, me trying to win him back when he has just dumped me, but as he said himself, he loves me and that is something i just cant move on from!
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reader, Takaira +, writes (22 January 2006):
 you know what drives men crazy? Is when we get our own life and start pulling away .If he doesnt pull you back than forget him. Be carefull this could start a pattern of him pulling away than coming back though. you might want to start your own life and forget him.
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reader, jolene +, writes (21 January 2006):
 4 months isent that long to be with someone , if you are getting bad vibes (like an intuition) from your relationship already id say maybe this would be your que to get out because the longer you leave it the harder it will be. but if its just him getting 'comfy' hot things up a bit, if hes anything like most men he wont resist...
also suggest thing you would both really love plenty in advance so you have something to look forward to and he cant say hes too busy (unless he is booked up for a whole fortnight!!!)
relationships dont always come easy to people especially men and they can take some working on, but the results are worth it in the long run,( if they are not too stubborn)
good luck
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