A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok im 14 years old and madly in love with my ex bf whos 15. but again hes my EX BOYFRIEND.....and its got me really depressedwhy:-hes got alot to handel all the time because hes got a hard life and hes not as strong as he comes across (but i totaly get that.....and he knows im always here if he needs anything)-hes not going to my school next year so i wont see him at all-were not really friends anymore because its always akward being around eachother when were not falling all over eachother (we have never really been just friends)-he totaly broke my heart-(etc. etc.)so how can i get over all of this and him so i can move on with my life and be happy again??
View related questions:
depressed, move on, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh and i almost forgot....
i have known him sence i was in first grade and he was kinda like a "boyfriend" from first to 3rd then again this year...
so iv always cared for him and not having him anymore is the worst pain i have ever felt....
if that makes any diffrence.....
A
female
reader, iSmil3y +, writes (22 May 2009):
You're only 14 so you're still young and you'll find someone else. It might hurt since you cared about him and loved him but The best thing to do, to get over him, is not have any contact with him what so ever, especially if it's awkward when you do talk. And remember, you are still young and you have time, trust me, you'll find someone.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): there's nothing wrong, you're only a child, you'll meet tons of other guys to choose from in your lifetime, and somebody is gonna make you forget about him. almost nobody ends up with their firsts boyfriends.
...............................
A
female
reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 I've been there - done that. Felt the pain and dealt with it.Not talking to him is definatley the BEST way to move on. I know you are sad because you won't see him, but it's really for the best. I mean, how will you move on? if you seem him everyday? exactly, you won't be able too.Sometimes you just got to let it go, it is what it is, it was what it was.. but it isn't that anymore.Sometimes it isn't about forgetting it. It's about accepting the fact that you guys broke up, and it probably will never be the same.Everyday it will get EASIER and EASIER, to accept. There is always something better in store for you.God gives you choices - but he is not responsible for your desicion and the consequence after. Just remember that - 'sometimes good things fall apart - so better things can come together'Cut off all contact with him until you think you have moved on enough to be mature with your feelings.Good Luckxx
...............................
A
female
reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 Hey sweety, Trust me its just your emotion, dont let your emotion win you, to fall in love by this stage is just normal, but dont let your self down by this, you will be happy again thats for sure" put this thing in your experience, you will be fine... life must go on remember, you never been in this guy when you are 7 years old, if you survive from 7 till 14 you will still survive from 14 till you reach your 20's.. he's emotional matters is not your responsible.. Goodluck
...............................
|
