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writes:well were do i start....i really love my bf, ive been with him for over 2 years. but he recently told me about him past. Were both 16 and he said he had anal, about a year ago. i felt really hurt. but he said he was sorry and he feels dirty when he thinks about it. the furtherest ive ever been is kissing and abit of touching, I'm far too innocent for him. what shall i do?p.s if your going to boast about how far you've gone and im just being silly then plz dont reply
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): if you have been with this guy for 2 years and he had anal sex 1 year ago and it wasnt you, guess what hes fuckin cheating, and if its already started at 16, drop him because despite your feelings for him its not mutual, he dosent love you enough to wait for you to be ready, sorry but hes a loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): I think your boyfriend is just blowing a lot of hot air to see your reaction, he got one, it wasn't good and now he is apologizing....he also may be testing you to see if you think that might be fun, it isn't, and no you are not too innocent for him...you have to be who you are and true to your own morals and values, if he does not like you for the real you then he is not a suitable boyfriend....but if you stand your ground, a boy that likes you will meet you where you are now and step up to the plate to be the kind of guy you are proud to be with, and he will respect you and be proud to be your boyfriend, too.
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reader, Farris +, writes (6 January 2007):
 Personally, I think the guy is lying, anal at fifteen is a little young. I think he was just trying to make himself seem more like a lad's lad to you; to make you think more of him. It's backfired now which is why he's apologising.
To be honest, I'd have more qualms with the fact that he says he cheated on you.
I don't think that you're too innocent at all. You're only sixteen, and maybe your friends are saying they've all had sex, but I'm willing to bet that you've probably lied about your sexual experience before (Haven't we all).
You're not too innocent for him. In fact, you're probably perfect for him, because it sounds like he's either really inexperienced as well, despite the bravado, or he's in need for some tender loving instead of a no strings attached fling with no feelings.
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 I'm not really sure what you're asking of us, if you're too innocent for him then take it slow and if he really likes you then he won't mind... yeah.. just do what's comfortable for you and don't let him push you into things... good luck(by the way most of the time any type of sex means less to guys than to girls, your bf might not have been into this person he did it with)
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