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writes:What would you do if your boyfriend told you he doesn't know if he wants to be with you or not?Would you break up with him, or hang on and wait for him to make up his mind? Thank you for any answers. Reply to this Question
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reader, unmeidaagonyaunt  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Dump him!
Don't be so passive about your time, which he is wasting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): Make his mind up for him, dump him. He is not being fair on you. You dont need someone who is willing to play with your emotions.
It will be hard because you love him but he clearly does not love you. If he did then he would be sure and he never would of said this to you.
Put yourself first and stop think of him because he clearly does enough of this for himself.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Date other people that are open to committed relationships.
Do not wait-move on to other opportunities!
"Sorry bf that you are unsure, so I am going to make up your mind FOR you. Bye!"
By the way, it is said this is what Katherine Middleton did to Wills when he was unsure about their relationship. She did hurt,but went out and dated and ENJOYED her life.
While you may not catch a prince...or this bf in the end. Better to enjoy your life instead of wallow and whine with a bum who is slow making up his mind.
When you KNOW the person is right..you simply KNOW!
Best Wishes and Good Luck!
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Break up with him.. I believe the second I have an indecision about someone it means I don't want to be when them. I break up instently. Hanging on will only give you more pain.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Hang on to what? His indecision?? My love....if your BOYFRIEND does not know what he wants to do where you are concerned, then why is he your boyfriend?
I would break up with him...that is not respect for you at all and it seems like he is wasting your time while he decides to make up his mind...nope...sorry I am sure you are worth much more than that.
Ditch him...perhaps..maybe....when he has made up his mind...someone who is man enough to know what they want has not swept you off your feet.
Best Wishes.
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