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writes:im 19 years old...i got married when i was 17.My husband is 26 years old, we have our first son together he is 6 months old.We been having problems for about 3 months i dont know if its my fault because we argue but i have to keep telling him to help me out with our son, i mean he does help but i have to keep telling him he also talks about sex 24/7 i mean its ok to talk about it but not every second. Honestly that annoys me i try to talk to him but he is not a open person he just say ok and thats all he says. I want him to talk to me he is a good guy he likes to work and is really smart my parents loves him but honeslty i dont know if i do and for me marriage is forever! I have no idea if to leave him or not? what should i do? i love my son but i want for him to be with his dad but its like he's not even here he doesnt even carry him at times...im lost. Reply to this Question
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reader, lostchick +, writes (8 October 2009):
lostchick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you soo much for the 3 first persons that helped me out yaul were a huge help... i talked to him and i told him how i exactly felt and wow did he change he said he was sorry and that he loves me. i hope he changes completely and not just for a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): It seems like you have two babies to take care of and you are young yourself. Your husband should take care of the baby as well. Maybe he is a sex addict or going through some phase?Talk to him, explain how you feel and what are your expectations of this marriage. Give him a bit of time to change his behavior, and if he still cannot fulfill his parental duties try to find alternative ways to make the situation better.Remember your son and you come first.
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reader, charlie p  +, writes (5 October 2009):
Right, don't resort to anything drastic like leaving him, try to make him understand how serious the problem is.
Be careful when you do this, however, make a real effort not to let it deteriorate into a shouting match.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2009):
Wow, you really need to talk to him about how you feel! Give him a reality check!! You've just had a baby, so you're probably exhausted like most other women who've had babies would be! Sit him down and tell him that you need more help and to stop talking about sex all the time because it's damaging your relationship. Start there.
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