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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and a bit now and i cant stand to be away from him.As i have been banned from seeing him this makes it all worse. I get to see him only at school and right now its in the holidays and im going through hell.I miss him so much and its making me depressed. He tells me he feels the same way. But when we hang out together and a certain one of his mates are there, its like i dont exsist. He doesnt do this whenever hes with any other of his friends i just dont understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you 2
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Heyy,
It must suck being away from your boyfriend, however, you have your friends you can hang out with as well, which can be just as much fun as when you're out with your boyfriend, maybe even a bit more, you never know :D
Also, like Uncle Phil said, he could be trying to look cool in front of this friend, and thinks ignoring you will do that.
Or, he may not be meaning to ignore you, but just has more to talk about with this friend, than any of his others.
Don't take my word for it.
Ask him why he does it, tell him it's confusing you, and you want to know why he ignores you. The only way you'll know the truth is by asking him, communication is they key.
Good Luck!
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Sweetheart, no need to worry about it, i have been seeing a devoiced for 7 months now, im not sure at anytime actually if he even wants me to sit by him, when he is around his friends it seems as if he does not want me there or puts me a side, that really is not true, maybe he actually just wants you closer and happens to look over his shoulder every now and then just to make sure you are there. Dont take it to hard, maybe try and ask him why he does it, beleive me, communication works! You will feel better
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): He's trying to appear 'cool' when he's around his mates. Much like John Travolta in the film 'Grease'.
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