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writes:ok, here's the background story to my question... Last semester in one of my classes I noticed a really cute guy. He seemed interested in me, he would glance over occasionally during class and we would make eye contact at the end of class. After a few days I started sitting near where he sat. If he came in on time or the seat was free, he would sit next to me or behind me. I'm super shy, so we never really talked. He might have been shy too, I really dont know! Every time I got up the nerve to talk to him, he wouldn't show up for class. So eventually class ended and we hadnt talked, except for a question he had about the class. Then our winter break started. I didn't think about him at all for a couple weeks, but then something made me start to think about him again and since then he has been on my mind every now and then. I have no idea if I will see him again or not in the upcoming semester. I want to see him again, just to see if I still have feelings for him, or if I'm over him.So I guess my question is, will seeing him again give me some sort of closure so that I can move on and forget about him? Or if I don't see him will I continue to think about him? If anyone has had this happen to them, or can help me in any way, I would really appreciate it! thanx!!!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (30 January 2006):
 Since there was never any actual relationship, I doubt that closure is really what your heart is looking for, I would say it's more the constant wondering of what could have been. I believe that seeing him again, you will still feel the attraction for him that you did before. Because you never had a beginning with him you can't have an end. If you do happen to see him this semester, maybe you can try to get up the nerve to talk to him, that way you can find out for sure if this is something you want or not. Good luck.
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