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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I haven't had sex in over six years. What can I do to better myself for the next time I have sex and also to give a A+ blow job?
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reader, foul temptress +, writes (4 March 2009):
Just remember to relax. If you start to tense up etc yourll notice little things more and have a higher risk of becoming sore. just relax and go with flow. Theres no harm in telling him ur a bit rusty and checking that he likes what ur doing.
Just remember variety is the spice of life, so dont feel embarrased to play around a bit. Enjoy...
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (4 March 2009):
Absolutely! Just go with the flow.
[Blush] I was the same a couple of years ago. Then I met this older guy, and it was like never forgeting how to ride a bike. Wobbly at first (me) but then it was like being on a highway with a Ferrari! LOL
Yes, it hurt a bit, sore for a few days. Just like a virgin! LOL
If he's a good partner, he'll understand. He will probably feel special too, because he knows that you were not promiscuous.
Don't forget to wear protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Me too, I haven't had sex for almost 6 years. I am a little afraid of what it might be like. Because we are female we might be a little sensitive in that region not having used those muscles for a long time. I think the best advice is to do what you feel, don't hold back. You might feel reluctant or unsure of yourself because it has been so long but being in the moment and doing what feels good and natural will make it great. Just trust your sexual instincts and try to forget how long it has been.
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