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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have an issue that seems to reoccur most times when i'm falling for someone. So i had a this guy who was really interested in me, calling me all the time, relentlessly texting me and asking me out on dates. All of this constant contact really turnt me off and i displayed lack of interest!Well, due to my cold response to his pestering, he completely stopped contact with me and now im left sort of wanting him to contact me...I don't know where this has come from, i had no interest whatsoever, and now i find my self always looking out for him in college?I was just curious as to whether anyone has experienced the same sort of affection for someone after they've gone cold, when you previously had not had any interest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2013): Sure. Its normal to want what you cant have. I dont think in this case your interest is genuine though. The guy sounds annoying. He was trying to woo you and was a complete pest about it. Came on too strong and then just fell off the face of the planet when naturally you didnt reciprocate. Thats just immature. And its left you wondering how someone who seemed so interested just disappeared suddenly, instead of trying a different approach or trying to remain friends. Its probably because his interest wasnt genuine. He was just desperately trying to lure somebody in and he probably found someone else leaving you scratching your head.
Id probably feel the same way.
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reader, human_male  +, writes (11 May 2013):
 He really went overboard with the constant clamoring for your attention. That's a real turn off. Now he's stopped that maybe you can see that there is an attractive guy there afterall.
Or maybe you're just immature and want what you can't have. But you wouldn't be the only one.
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