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writes: Hi! I am in love with two guys. One i've been with for 6 months and i'm sure I was in love with until an old flame who lives abroad showed up. He is away for over a year and I won't be able to see him. The local guy I know i could love but I have always wondered about the old love. What to do?! Have i idealized the old boyfriend? Anyone been through this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (22 January 2006):
I don't think what you're experiencing is love, I think it's more, just like u said, the flicker of an old flame. Don't risk what you have on this feeling you have, especially if you know your relationship with the man you're with now is strong. You probably feel right now like the ex is something different and exciting but it will wear off and you will long for your current boyfriend. In my opinion I dont think it's worth the risk. Try to avoid the ex to avoid stirring up any unwanted feeling and throw all your energy into loving your man! All the Best xKx
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