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writes:I'm sorry this is so long! I'm 18 years old and I've been wth my boyfriend for 5 years. He's the same age as me. We've spoken about marriage and I love him so very much. However, about 9 months ago I met this guy when he added me on msn by accident - I started chatting to him and we got on really well. We e-mailed all the tme and started texting, and I spoke to him pretty much every night. He's 28, so ten years older than me, and a teacher. By coincidence I ended up moving with my family and now I live really close to him, and I started going round to see him. I ended up sleeping with him, and nothing changed between us - he was still as nice as always. I didn't feel guilty about my boyfried, even though I know it's wrong. However, the more I've gone to see this guy the less interested he seems to be - I slept with him again and now he's really off wth me, and I feel so stupid. Thing is, I can't stop thinking about him and think I have strong feelings for him. At the same time, I still love my boyfriend. I'm worried I've got into a serious relationship too young, and I don't know how to behave around the other guy. I don't want anything to do with him, but I can't help but want to talk to him. His attitude is tearing me up inside, and now I've started feeling guilty about my boyfriend. I know I'm stupid. Sorry this is so long, please help.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 You may have gotten into a relationship too young. You may have to give up on the teacher. I hate to say it this way, but it sounds like he got what he wanted then moved on. What makes it even harder is in order to carry on with your boyfriend, if that's your choice, you really need to tell him what happened. You said in here that you knew it was wrong. Your boyfriend deserves to know the truth and if you have strong feelings for this other guy, it would be proper to end things with your boyfriend while you get yourself sorted and figure out what you want to do.
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