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writes:I met this guy at his families hairdressers. I could tell he liked me by the way he looked at me and the questions he was asking. He and his family know my current boyfriend but I am not happy. this guy has brought up twins on his own with the help of his family.I would like to develop a friendship with him but the last time I went down I felt this awkwardness sa if he could not talk to me. I kept feeling him looking at me.Previous to that I found out that he knew of a music place my son could go to learn drums etc. I gave him my work card with my mobile number on it. He did not call and I felt embarassed after as I wondered if he felt I was coming on to him.My last visit to the hairdressers, his sister said this other hairdresser was a good friend of his and this guy kept trying it on with me. Have I created an impression that I am available and easy!!?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (8 March 2009):
Libra1963 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your time and your useful responses. Maybe I am over reacting.
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 No you haven't, stop over-reacting. You're probably a little sensitive coz you didn't get a call. It's not a big deal. It's life, get over it. As for the last part of your story - about his friend, I don't understand it but you really sound like you're over-reacting. Nothing about the story says easy.
As for the guy not calling, get over it, maybe he lost the number. I doesn't matter, it's not a big deal.
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reader, AlphaFX +, writes (7 March 2009):
 No I don't see it that way...your not engaging in any sort of relationship with him that seems past associates or friends so that cuts out the easy...now dealing with available that depends on if you were showing signs of interest or flirting with him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 March 2009):
You'll have to look long and hard at yourself to find out. Ask a friend to be really really painfully brutally honest with you.
What do you wear? Do you flirt a lot? Do you mention that you have a boyfriend?
I have this problem sometimes as I flirt with everyone. It's a habit I got into during my ugly duckling teenage years when everyone in my small town knew me and no one wanted me so it was meaningless.
Then I grew up and filled out and went to uni far away and suddenly all these guys started thinking I wanted them.
I realised my mistake and was a bit more careful.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying to be a Nun. But just find out what it is and then be a little careful with it. I think in this modern age of perfect models in magazines, we normal girls forget what effect we can actually have one someone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, loving arms +, writes (7 March 2009):
I doubt that you have given that impression. You just sound overly worried about how he might view you and so are jumping to conclusions. If he was talking and looking at you as though he fancied you, he might be reluctant to phone you because he knows you are in a relationship. I doubt his family are even aware of the attraction between to two of you. So the second guy is just a coincident. Maybe you need to think about ending the relationship you are in so that the nice guy you want to be friends with will hear about it. He might then feel able to contact you.
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