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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a long time but i have the urge to have sex with someone else. should we be together i do love him very much? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
Only you know the answer as to whether you should be with your boyfriend or not.
If you love your boyfriend then nothing is worth risking your relationship over but you need to work through why you are feeling this arge to sleep with this other person.
I've been told by alot of people that they feel attraction towards other people when they are with someone I personally have never had any attraction towards another person when involved with someone I want to be with so I don't know what it's like to be in your situation maybe there is something missing in your relationship that you need to work on or work through together.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): Well dear, how do you expect someone else to answer that question for you? Only you can decide if you want to remain committed and all that implies with your boyfriend. I have no idea what your age is, but I am guessing you are quite young. If you have the urge to have sex with someone else and want to give into the urge, then of course you should break up with your boyfreind before he gets hurt when you cheat on him, that is the mature thing to do, and the kindest thing you can do for your current and future boyfriends...Take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): you need to be true to yourself and to your boyfriend!! if you love him you wont want to hurt him. but sex with this someone else is it worth risking your relationship for?
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