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36-40,
*omof1
writes:I've been in a relationship for 6 years, but about 4 months ago I met a guy at work who I've fallen head over heels for. He says he cares about me and wants me to be happy. I really don't know what to do. I really like him possibly even love him but i'm afraid and don't know what to do. My relationship has been on the rocks but I still don't want to hurt my fiance. Help.
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Pick one or the other, without keeping either one lingering. If you're seeing the other guy, it's proper to allow your fiance to choose whether or not to continue with you. He may get hurt, but that's fair to him to be allowed that choice.
If you're falling for someone and engaged to get married, you're not ready to be married. You'll know when you are, it's like being in a bubble with someone and everyone else you could find attraction with no longer exists.
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