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Hate oral sex

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Question - (9 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2010)
A female Lebanon age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hey

my husband wants me to suck him, and i just hate suck i dont know what to do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010):

he knows you hate it yet he still wants you to do it?

that kind of selfishness and total disregard for my feelings would turn me off even more

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2010):

try to find out what you hate about oral

and talk about it with your husband

you might not really hate oral it self but hate something

related to it

finally i would be really pissed off if my wife didnt do oral on me

because i do oral on her and

it is something that every one else seem to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010):

oral sex it somthing that most guys like but what they dont undrstand is that not everygirl enjoys it, but well the secret is the first few times you do it its kinda gross but you need to try it a little more often once you're familiar with his body, the two of you would enjoy.but if you dont like the taste of sperm the you dont have to swallow it just do something fun with it

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A male reader, kev2010 India +, writes (9 December 2010):

well, its all about physical intimacy, closeness and love.

its not about oral sex, give pleasure and receive, but with the necessary precautions. like personal hygiene etc.

if you get the picture as to what i am talking about you can take this forward by talking to him on the above mentioned subjects.

there's this thin line between love and lust.

it all depends on a persons mood too. sometimes we would want long sessions on love making and sometimes a quickie.

does not mean its lust.

as to your problem, regarding oral sex with your husband, i think it should be any of the above mentioned criteria.

if any of the above, do respond back and i may be able to guide you as to how you should put it across to a guy without hurting the male ego.

wish you all the best.

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