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female
age
51-59,
*haron12
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We moved in together 2 years ago. After 6 months of me and my 3 children aged 10, 9 and 7 moving in, he has changed. He was off work at this point, I was paying and still do, the vast majority of bills, including mortgage etc. For the last year, his best mate has stayed every weekend, they both get drunk and stoned, his friend is rude to me and my kids at times, his friend will question me when I go out (even if it is to the shop), his friend questions who I am on the phone to, he gets angry when asked not to roll his joints in front of the kids, he sleeps on the sofa, kids have to stay upstairs if they want to watch t.v etc. It is making my life hell, a few months ago I left my boyfriend mainly because of this problem. We talked, got back together and we were great for a few weeks, alas we are now back to square one!! My boyfriends mate even stays in the house when he is not here!!! I recently tried to talk to my boyfriend again about this but at the moment he finds it amusing. Any ideas on how to deal with this as I am at my wits end!!! x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 April 2010):
Walk right back out of the door. He's basically using you for the money while he sits there with his friend and gets stoned. Just leave him and get away from hi. He's using you.
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