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writes:Had a really good first date with a guy on thursday night. I text him once on friday nite and once on saturday night... it is now sunday and i haven't heard anything from him although it was his idea to meet up again. Shall i continue to persue him or leave it for him to make the next move? One more thing, im 17 and hes 23... do you think that has anything to do with him blanking me?
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 My advice would be to leave it to him to make the next move. You texted him twice already so he knows you like him and wouldn't mind seeing him again. I would find it a little rude if a date didn't get back to me even if only to tell me he doesn't want to go on a second date, but you can't demand an answer or explanation after after only one date. If he doesn't get back to you he is not a good enough guy anyway, so just leave it. Hopefully he has only been busy and then he will get back to you in a few days. The age different shouldn't be any problem.
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reader, pavel38 +, writes (9 September 2007):
Wait to hear from him, you've demonstrated to him that you're thinking about him by texting him, so it's now all up to him. Personally I think it's abit crap that he hasn't at least sent you a text no matter how busy he may be, but I hope it works out for you.
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reader, Jualsy  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 What it all has to do with is how HE felt about the other evening, and whether HE wants to meet up again. he may have been really busy since he saw you...........leave him to make the moves, then you will not have any doubts as to where you stand.
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