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writes:He is a work colleague who I do consider as a friend but it's only been a few months we have known each other .He has just got sick leave for three weeks. A part of me thinks it is related towards him separating with his wife.His colleague/friends who he is close to have attempted to contact him but he ignores them.I haven't got his number, he has mine, he never gave me his. But I am worried and I want to text saying hope you are ok. But I haven't got his number and I could get it but same time if he is ignoring his friends what is the point in me trying?Should I text him or not?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 January 2013):
 he's ignoring close friends what makes you think he's not going to ignore you.
YOU don't know why he's out for three weeks you supposed (or is it HOPE) it's about a separation from his spouse...
Maybe he's having his hemorrhoids removed and does not wish to discuss it.
I think if he wanted you to have his number he would have given it to you.
Just wait till he comes back to work.
and btw even if he did separate from his wife, that does not make him fair game to try to date or hook up with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2013): No. Do not text him. He is going through a very difficult situation and needs time to sort it out on his own. If he needs the support of a friend, he will call you when he is ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2013): There is no harm in trying to reach him. If he responds good. If not, you are one among his ignorees ... Probably you can take another shot at him a while later when he recovers.
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