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writes:A guy I was sort of talking to (not flirting) and we kept getting pushed together. Friends would push us into conversations and make excuses for us to accidentally meet up but they did it on purpose. I sort of liked him and he made me laugh. Well, one day, we ended up alone together and we ended up kissing. I told him to stop and ge said 'we finally get too, why should we?' I was not trying to!I told him that and he git upset and then my friend izzie told him it was because I don't shave down there. She saw me changing for a pool party with just girls and said I should. I said 'why, no ones supposed to be seeing it' and she said I couldn't count on that and needed to be prepared.So now everyone's making fun of me
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (2 July 2023):
 You had a lucky escape. Don't put yourself in a situation again where you could be vulnerable. You are lucky things didn't go further than they did. Believe me, you will look back on this episode in your life and be grateful.
P.S. Izzie is not your friend. Drop her and find someone who doesn't try to belittle you and get you into trouble.
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reader, TryingToBeFree2023 +, writes (29 June 2023):
 I'm sure you realize Izzy and that guy are absolute Jerks to put it nicely! Izzy had no business looking at your body anyway and your response was perfect: no one needs to be seeing it. If she's the friend who was trying to push you and Guy together, she's not a friend! Tell her, "are you OK? Do you really think I should count on a guy trying to look at a PRIVATE area? Why were YOU looking?" You absolutely do not have to kiss anyone you don't want to. If people make fun say, "I have enough self respect to keep my clothes on, thank you"
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