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What am I doing wrong that is making men turn gay?

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Question - (1 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2011)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my two ex boyfriends have both turned gay after having sex with me. now i havent had sex in a while because i am scared. what am i doing so wrong that is making men turn gay.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011):

It's a coincidence.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011):

Nothing you are doing is causing this.

However, you may be attracted to gay men (or more correctly sexual orientation uncertain young males who haven't committed to one course or another and are hence "bisexual") because of a whole host of psychological issues, and they may be attracted to you for the same reasons.

But, it is nothing you are doing, it doesn't mean you are inadequate either.

The sharpest dressing and looking guy in my college class was gay, I can see why women would be attracted to him...the rest of us looked like dorks comparatively...he had good clothes, good shoes, stylish haircut, groomed and coiffed all the time. Then, guys like me show up in class in an old T-shirt, wearing worn out running shoes, and worn out jeans.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (2 May 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntNobody can turn another person gay. End of. So you need to get that idea out of your head.

It can be one of a few things, you can either have just been unlucky to date to men that where still not sure of their sexuality. Or maybe there was something about these men that you were attracted too, many women fancy gay men, some only falling for gay men. Either way you didnt turn anyone gay, so you need to put it out of your mind and move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011):

you cant turn a person gay, they are born straight or gay. many gay men have had past gf's. you have just happened to go out with 2 men who just happenn to be gay

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