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*nikkiM
writes:Dear Cupid,I've been in this long distance relationship for about a year now. I'm going to visit him in about two weeks and I am so excited. I bought a bunch of lingerie to make sure that we have a time that both of us will remember for the rest of our lives. Do you have any suggestions on how to make this the most memorable experience I can?
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (8 March 2007):
Then the best thing to do when you meet him is to talk with him openly and honestly about your and his feelings.
Don't expect a fabulous extravaganza and then come back and make a decision all by yourself about whether to end it or not.
This is something you should talk about. How well you talk to one another is one of the key factors in deciding whether the relationship is a good one or not.
Say something like: "I don't want to have a long distance relationship in the long run. What are you thoughts on what might happen in the future?" and then have an open discussion with him
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reader, JnikkiM +, writes (8 March 2007):
JnikkiM is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have no idea where this relationship is going. That's Y I'm so excited about the visit. I want it to be special because u never know when the last visit is going to be. I have no problem moving where he is but we bearly every discuss it. This is the reason Y this visit is important to me. I may make the decision to end it after I come back if I don't see it going anywhere. I want to be with him but I don't want to waist my time waiting for something that's never going to happen. Although I know he loves me and I love him. It just gets to hard and he's a real strong confident man that may never say what I want him too.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (8 March 2007):
If you've been in the relationship for a year, what is so special about this particular visit?
Where do you see your relationship going with this guy? Will you move to the same place eventually?
I would suggest that you just relax and spend the time trying to get to know him better. You'll have a lovely time whatever happens, but getting too excited can ruin it, like a child getting too excited about their holiday and then being sick.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Bring a camera and take lots and lots of pictures together. Tons! Of all the things you do together and of the two of you... save little mementos and then when you're back at home you can make a scarpbook or a photo album of your time that you spent together.
Or are we talking sexually? Have fun! Talk with each other... be open and enjoy yourselves.
I'm happy for you, girl. Have a lot of fun!
xxIndia
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