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Going through depression, considering myself ugly!

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Question - (13 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eely-h writes:

help i am going through depression i am onyl 14 (15 in 2 months)i think i am the most ugliest girl in my year this is because i recently got told i was ugly by my best freind i think she is right too!!!

and also i looked in the mirror i thought i looked nice but when i got the another mirror ( and reflected it my mirror image to see how people saw me) i thought i looked really really ugly i asked my sister and she said i looked better outside the mirror.she said i am pretty but i dont think so one of my freinds said i was one of the best looking girls in my year.

does anyone no how i can make myself feel better?

or any advice on how to treat my depression?

(p.s i look diffrent to what i look like in real life then on my avatar its just a good picture of me in my opinon anyway)

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (14 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYour story is like the fairy tale we read when we were young.

The ugly duckling became the most beautiful white swan.

Hey! Let no one say you are the most ugliest. Those words are just rubbish.Don't believe them hook line and sinker. Your best friend is just joking only.

She would also be the ugliest if she is your best friend.LOL! Ask yourself why would she want to befriend the ugliest girl in your year?

Every girl is beautiful for God make them that way.If people say you are ugly , it is because you are more beautiful than them.Ha! Ha!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008):

listen chick if she said that shes jealous of you ,girls are very very mean to girls that are prettier than themselves and they put you down to hurt you . i know its happened to me i was called stunning and beatiful and the teachers at school said i should be a model but my life was made hell even when i went to work . hold you head up high and ignore them ,it has given me a eating disorder and iam still figthting it at 38 years old . your arent ugly get a new best friend and a boyfriend who wants you and dont let these bullies hurt yiou

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A female reader, didapoo United States +, writes (13 February 2008):

didapoo agony auntfirst of all, shes obviously not your best friend. sorry, but take it from me, real friends dont say your ugly. As for depresion, talk to your parents or someone you trust, and go see a councelor. Trust me, it will make a difference. Talk to your sister. Is she older than you? It sounds like you just need to talk to someone who is not jeolous of you. It seems to me that your "best friend" is. Im sure if you always thought you were attractive, you are as you dont just wake up one day and think that. Get some help, and dont worry, teen age years are really tough, but when you get older, you WILL look back and giggle.

Good Luck, and Take Care!

Dida

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