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writes:Okay well i like this guy ive known for a bit over 2 years and he knew i liked him for a while. he thinks i got over him and i went to the easter show with him his friend and my best friend we had such a great time, he told my bestfriend he had never seen me like this before and he really liked me like that, im really good friends with his two best mates and i talk about him a lot. anyway im going out with this really great guy and i really like him hes really funny and cute and ive only known him from this year but i still have very strong feelings for the guy ive liked for a bit over 2 years, what should i do? please help me.
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reader, eek  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 i feel sorry for the guy your with as i know only too well what its like to be in his position.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): Two choices really, stay with the nice guy who you like and is cool, who is dating you and you're happy with or go with the guy who knew you had a crush on yet never did anything about it and now only sees you differently because you've stopped chasing him and he misses the attention.
I would hate to be the guy you're dating now because if you like this other guy more then he's just your second best and that's a horrible feeling. The thing is if you do like your 2 year guy more then it's unfair for you date this guy because he's obviously not enough for you. Not only that but here you are the first sign of interest from your 2 year guy and you're ready to run to him. I wouldn't want to be with a girl who's that flaky to be honest, I'd want to be the only guy a girl has feelings for and I want her to tell me if that wasn't the case so I could dump her and not talk to her again (as a means of getting over her, not out of spite.)
I say you be honest with the guy you're dating now and see what he says to you having feelings for someone else. Because your feelings are obviously stronger for your crush and I have absolutely no doubt that if there was a concrete chance you could get with him, you would regardless of this new guy.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 Are you dating another guy or are you in a relationship with another guy?
If you are dating the guy figure out how you feel about him. Do you like him a lot to continue to date him? If not I would tell him that you like him a lot but not in that way.
If you are in relationship with him then I would get over your 2 year crush or end the relationship. It's not fair to your boyfriend to have feelings for another and lead him on.
Good Luck!
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 If the guy is going to take two years to even notice you then he's not worth it. Stay with the guy you're with now and don't give him up for someone who takes two years to acknowledge your feelings.
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