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anonymous
writes:So I'm with my girlfriend for the second time after a break. But it turns out the first time at a party we went to , together, she kissed and tossed someone else off. I left earlier then her as I was up early the next morning. But months after she admitted doing this and while i was still there and went to the toilet kissing him. She hasnt done anything this time, should i still be with her?
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Dude this girl clearly doesnt respect you or feel anything for you...she has cheated on you,broken up,shes later back n u just accept her...man she is walking all over you and until you stand up for yourself,set and follow through on standards you expect frm the woman in your life,she wont respect you coz she knows she can get away with bad behaviour like 'CHEATING' on you. I think you need to let this one go,you can do better and deserve better from a partner you chose to be with
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reader, N91 +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Tell her to hit the dusty trail, she obviously doesn't care for you very much if she's too busy wanking other guys off whilst you're on a break.
Give it time and you'll find a girl that you don't even need to have a break from.
Good luck
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (7 June 2011):
 well its up to you if you forgive her for her previous erm.. misdemeanour or not. personally i think what she did is extremely low and unless she has changed drastically between then and now, then no, i don't think she respects you or the relationship you had so i would seriously wonder if she does this time. put it this way, if you had been the one left at the party coz she had to go early and you got with another girl as soon as her back was turned - would you feel you deserved to be in a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): I think you really need to ask her that firmly, 'should I still be with you' get a straight answer out of her.
Perhaps she was drunk and should not be drinking.
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