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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months. I was until recently the only guy she had seen naked. Recently my roommate came out of the bathroom nude when we were walking into the room. I'm nervous she has been thinking about him/wanting him when we are together in bed. My roommate is probably about 10 inches long(exactly double my length),and has a better body tone. I was wondering if I have anything to worry about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): Worry more about the better body than the big dick.
An erect 7-inch wiener might look good to her depending on the girl. But a wiener that is 10 inches when still limp is probably just scary.
Either way if she was gonna cheat on you this incident would not be solely responsible for why she did it. If the dude has a body that great then she probably knew it just by seeing him fully dressed. And if she has an internet connection then she could see bigger dicks any time she wanted.
There are hot guys all over the place and this is not the first time she has seen one.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (9 August 2010):
 I wouldn't worry about it. women aren't nearly as visually as men are. mental things stimualte us. as long as you're good to her you'll be fine.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (9 August 2010):
 You may be letting your imagination run riot here. Just because she saw your roomie does not meet she would be fatnasizing about him. For all you know, he isn't her type. If she's actually had any prior experience with men with large penises, she is aware that it usually means a lot of pain and not much else.
Don't sweat it :)
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 Yea, I'd be very worried if I were you. She's young, possibly not very experienced and, having seen your mate, will probably now, more than ever, be wishing to experiment and explore. Enjoy her while you can but be assured, her inquisitiveness will be well-aroused now she knows what else is out there. She'll soon be off. Sorry mate, but that's how I see it. No use in giving false hope by not wishing to hurt your feelings like the other 'aunts' now, is there?
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): Try not to be insecure about it. If it bothers you a lot, just tell your girlfriend that the situation made you uncomfortable and why. Don't accuse. Odds are she looked but won't touch.
Most women (generalization I know, but it seems true for most cases) Will take a charming, sweet, ect. boyfriend over someone who looks more physically attractive. Looks fade, but personality doesn't. She's with you as your girlfriend, not your roommate (who I'm assuming she's seen clothed before).
So relax a bit, talk about it if you need to. You've been dating for almost a year, odds are she'll want to stick around and she's been sticking around because she enjoys your company, not just your um.. assets. =)
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reader, Odds +, writes (9 August 2010):
 A better body and package alone will not typically make a girlfriend stray, especially if you ar eher first. However, it will be a strong point in his favor if he ever starts hitting on her. I would advise you to carefully, discreetly, avoid leaving them alone together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): On the whole, it seems guys are much more into size than girls. Girls tend to care about whether you are loving, kind, a considerate lover ( much more important than size).
So I say work on these assets, and don't worry about the other kind.
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reader, blawndie +, writes (9 August 2010):
 No. She's with you and has been with you for 10 months I don't think seeing a naked dude would make her stop wanting you and want him all of a sudden and leave you for him. Don't worry.. She's with YOU. Honestly, if I saw a guy with a better body and a larger package than my own boyfriend I wouldn't wanna just jump on that asap. You shouldn't worry.
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