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*rent Adams
writes:Hey all, hope you can help :)Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. Until about six months ago we had a great sex life, no problems. Now however its become awkward, like I know I want to and I think she does too but it just doesn't happen. Iv tried the usual, being more sensual, buying lingerie for her etc but this just seems to help for a short period. Wer both 22 and I have a high sex drive, this is becoming more and more of a concern for me because I don't want to loose her but I dont want to start acting like an old married couple! Help!Trent
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 What has she said when you've talked to her about this?
A drastic decrease all of a sudden is a sign that something has changed. Think back. Is there something you were doing that you aren't anymore? Are there little things you could be doing? Some examples; give her a real kiss goodbye in the morning, tell her she looks beautiful at random times, tell her you love her when she doesn't expect it, thank her for things she does around the house. Sometimes people get into a routine and forget that little things make a big difference.
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